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This has been one of those weeks where Ty literally changed from night to night. He's growing so fast and his transformation from baby to boy is in full swing. Just this week, he told me "no", started walking, shaking his head yes/no, blowing kisses, and communicating with words other than Muma, Dada, and Moo.
We went to Applebees for dinner, tonight, and when we walked in the door the hostess asked,"Just the three of you?" It made my heart skip a beat. We're a three of you. Do you know how long it was just the two of us? Ben didn't really find the wonder in it and was more anxious to order an appetizer, but I've thought about it all night. Of course, we've been a family all year long, but usually when we go to dinner the hostess will say, "Two and a baby?" Tonight, there was no baby. We were a family of three.
There is something so special about having a family outside of just Ben and me. Ty has become a real ham and was making us laugh all through dinner. I never noticed anyone else in the restaurant. It was just us. Me - Ben - Ty.
As much as I look forward to expanding our family, my life is so full, right now, it overflows. Mothering Tyrus has given me a completing joy that refreshes my heart each day. I'm so thankful for God's little reminders of where he's brought us, especially when they come from unexpected places.
I know what you mean! I can't go back to that place where it was just Amy and me...I don't remember what that feels like. I live for these kids and love including them in everything we do to give them every experience imaginable in this life.
ReplyDeleteOh, and I'm an appetizer guy, too. [grin]
We haven't got no yet, but "stop" is thrown around quite a bit and he points to everythnig and says "thi" (this). he wants us to tell him the name of everything in sight. I love it. We've seen the shaking head and blowing kisses too. Great pics. Summer is the best.
ReplyDeleteI LOVE this, "Just the three of you?" I can totally relate to why that was music to your ears. You're right that there's something so special about being a family that consists of more than a couple. I always considered M. and I a family before C. came along but now it's different and in many ways, so much better. :)
ReplyDeleteMelba
aww hoe cute. He is growing so fast and is adorable. he puts a smile on your face when you see him because he has so much joy in his face. He is truly happy with you guys. It is nice to hear that you are a family of three. That was exciting for us when we would go into a restuarant and we knew it wasn't just the two of us anymore like it had been for years. Wait till you go to his first movie theater you just watch them in aww of there reactions that is really cute as well.
ReplyDeleteThis post gave me shivers! I LOVE IT! I totally get what you mean about "just the three of you." Your words are so eloquent because all I can seem to muster up is, "it's just so.... cool!" Hehe!
ReplyDeleteAnyway, sometimes I feel like I am the only one that still marvels the fact that I get to watch this kid grow up and she loves me. There is nothing quite like it!
Bri
Love the pictures. :) Just wanted to say I also loved your post about how hard the cost of adoption is, and you feeling drawn to foster care eventually. It was such a beautiful and heartfelt post. Thanks for sharing. :)
ReplyDeleteI can only imagine the joy in your heart when they said "the three of you." I hope to one day hear it, too. I think it's amazing that there are women (and mommies) like us who can TRULY appreciate those gifts, those moments that make it all worth it. I have been eating up every baby gift, every question asked about our hopeful new baby, every congratulations. I've waited years for those things. Anything could go wrong, but that's true for anyone...what a gift it is to REALLY see these moments for the blessings they are.
ReplyDeleteYou've got me a bit teary eyed just thinking about it. I love it being the 3 of us too. I still have moments of wonder and just like Ben my husband does not see the wonder in it.
ReplyDeleteSo sweet...Ty is too cute for words.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful!
ReplyDeleteHe isnt a baby anymore! I am so happy for you. Actually Im so happy for all of us. I am really enjoying watching him grow. His walking video cracks me up. Love that little guy!!
ReplyDeleteRebekah
How sweet Rebekah! It made me sit here and imagine Corey and I as a "3" someday and what that would be like! Thanks for the foreshadowing! ;)
ReplyDeleteHaving a third "little person" is crazy. The changes that take place during the 12-18 months window are truly CRAZY. They change so much and it really is an about face as a mother to go from having an infant and having this independent spirited CHILD. It is so precious and I know you are loving every moment!
ReplyDeleteWhat a revelation. When others notice what a big boy Ty is,that means something. Love the new pictures.
ReplyDeleteI love your saying I was born to be a mother. Would you like to share your adoption story on my blog? http://openadoptionmatters.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeleteplz email me if so
crazy7bunch@cableone.net
This post is pure joy and made my heart so happy! He is such a beautiful and special boy.
ReplyDeleteJust read your previous post as well and wanted to thank you for continuing to pour out your heart on this blog and sharing your joys and your struggles with us. Praying for the Lord's guidance and peace about the future of your family.
I love the family of three too!! Our son is almost 3 and I still will cry because I can't believe it's not just the two of us anymore. and... Happy Birthday!!!
ReplyDeletea lil birdie told me :)
From reading Rebekah's BEAUTIFUL post about you today, I see that it is your birthday, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! :) You don't know me, but I came across your blog and was truly touched by your story. YOu seem like such a wonderful person. I hope your birthday is wonderful!
ReplyDeleteLove and prayers,
Christina
Happy Birthday Rebekah. You are such a precious part of our lives. We are celebrating with you here in the Springs.
ReplyDeleteAnnjeri
Happy Birthday!
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Rebekah! Here's to many, many years of happiness and love.
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday, Rebekah :) I hope your day is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI had to stop by and say "Happy Birthday"! I hope you have a wonderful day!
ReplyDeleteI just LOVE, LOVE, LOVE the post Rebekah did for you today!
Renea
Happy Birthday Rebekah. I've only recently started reading yours and Rebekah's blog. Both of you have touched my heart in more ways than you'll ever know. I think Ty is a very lucky boy to have two awesome mommy's.
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