tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post239929811847196748..comments2024-01-02T19:39:27.832-05:00Comments on Heart Cries: God Help UsRebekahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11920816691217676013noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-57845063552563524682014-01-24T12:06:16.609-05:002014-01-24T12:06:16.609-05:00Sounds like Lya has RAD....be very diligent in ass...Sounds like Lya has RAD....be very diligent in assessing this situation as RAD can & will wreak havoc on your lives as you know them. As a caseworker, I have seen many families who have been torn apart by the trauma RAD can bring. Unfortunately, sometimes love just isn't enough to mend these broken little beings.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-38707227610692354942014-01-23T07:45:27.283-05:002014-01-23T07:45:27.283-05:00Prayers for your whole family and these precious c...Prayers for your whole family and these precious children. BumbersBumblingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15804403640550027122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-23617128397981860072014-01-18T08:58:18.988-05:002014-01-18T08:58:18.988-05:00Praying for these sweet babies!Praying for these sweet babies!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17830086154280167548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-63576409466248483512014-01-17T21:32:56.225-05:002014-01-17T21:32:56.225-05:00I am so like you in that I would tend to want to r...I am so like you in that I would tend to want to rush forward with my heart leading the way. What a blessing that you have Ben AND that you aren't angry at him for proceeding more cautiously. I love that you know and trust that God has a plan for you, your family and these poor little children. I'll be praying...Charhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13406064133884560608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-73603194380046786742014-01-17T19:50:44.166-05:002014-01-17T19:50:44.166-05:00Hey sweet mama, if they are meant for your family,...Hey sweet mama, if they are meant for your family, they will come and God will prepare you and Ben and them and life will be difficult, but like with LJ, He will take control and His love will flow through your love and these children will be yours… in heart and soul through Christ. You will be equipped to love them… He will show you the way… but most importantly… praying and trusting that His will be done xx Lin Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-22817122856911244052014-01-17T15:53:58.631-05:002014-01-17T15:53:58.631-05:00Found myself tearing up reading this. We don't...Found myself tearing up reading this. We don't even fully understand what LJ has been through I suspect as you guard your boys' best interests so well. I can only imagine the horrors. Praying for you all and especially these precious children. Joy@WDDCHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03709113785857792361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-4127279487497721952014-01-17T12:55:09.542-05:002014-01-17T12:55:09.542-05:00I really don't remember how I stumbled upon yo...I really don't remember how I stumbled upon your blog, but I have been a reader for a long time. I even when back to the first post and read it all...from 2008 forward. I have neer been compelled to comment until today. I wept as I read this post. My heart breaks for these children. I think of my own girls (ages 3 and 1.5) and I tremble at the thought of them suffering what these children have endured. You are an amazing woman. You are an awesome inspiration. And I have no doubt that you are the. best. mother. I'm joining you in prayer that God provides the right home for these babies. And for all of the other babies out there in similar situations. Children are the most precious thing; the all deserve to know deep, unconditional love. God bless you. God bless Ben. God bless your family. God bless Lya and Jamar.Mandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-12277082417345879282014-01-17T11:51:11.529-05:002014-01-17T11:51:11.529-05:00As a mother of a traumatized toddler adopted from ...As a mother of a traumatized toddler adopted from foster care, I would think VERY VERY hard about your decision. These children really sound like they have attachment issues. children with attachment issues will not be anything like Ty and LJ, they will have a lifetime of struggle and it will have an enormous impact on your other kids. Please make sure you are very realistic and ready for a commitment like that since 4 little lives are at stake.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-45936448466246415402014-01-17T11:42:39.514-05:002014-01-17T11:42:39.514-05:00Oh Rebekah. I believe that people like you and Ben...Oh Rebekah. I believe that people like you and Ben...and the other families being considered...are truly given a gift by God. My heart breaks for those sweet babies, but at the same time, I know there is no way I would have the emotional capacity to properly care for them. You are special people!Brandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11206556438559586125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-45597292132560599112014-01-17T11:30:18.158-05:002014-01-17T11:30:18.158-05:00I pray these children find peace soon. I pray these children find peace soon. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12910106053686014451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7712476185050900324.post-80591549667304870542014-01-17T11:01:25.756-05:002014-01-17T11:01:25.756-05:00Those poor babies! :( I've been following your...Those poor babies! :( I've been following your blog for a few years now, but I'm not sure I've ever commented :) but I need to today. As I read your words about Lya, my heart ached, literally. My sweet daughter will be 4 (tomorrow) and I just can't even imagine her having lived in SEVEN homes in 24 months!?!? :( Awful! I will pray for these children, your family, and that God's will is done, whichever way that may be! :)m&msmommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16812102710227469529noreply@blogger.com